Dating photos
Which dating photo should you use?
Your first photo does most of the work on a dating app, and your friends will tell you they are all great. Put two photos side by side and let a panel of invented singles pick the one that wins the room.
Your first 3 panels are free. No account needed. Every panelist is AI, and says so.
Which photo should be my first one, A or B?
Night Bus Regular
"B. You look like someone who answers texts."
The Group Chat
"A looks like a work badge. B looks like a person."
Her Best Friend
"B, and crop out the ex-boyfriend's arm."
Verdict
16 of 25 pick: B, the one where you are laughing.
Written by us to show the format. Every real panel is generated fresh, and every panelist is AI.
How it works
Three steps, about forty seconds.
- 1
Set up an A-or-B
Upload the two photos you are torn between. Add a line about where the photo will be used.
- 2
Choose The Singles
First impressions, no mercy. Or keep the General Public for a broader read.
- 3
See which one wins
A vote, like 16 of 25 pick B, plus a reason from every panelist so you see why it won.
The panel
Why friends are the wrong judges
Dating apps reward the photo that makes a stranger stop scrolling. Friends know you, so they see you, not the photo. A panel of strangers reacts to the picture itself.
PanelSay is not a dating service and promises no matches. It is a fast way to compare photos before you commit. Want to rank more than two? Run the winner against the next photo, like a tournament.

The Singles: invented characters, every one of them AI.
Questions
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